Couple Family and Sex Therapy NYC

COUPLE FAMILY & SEX THERAPY NYC

The FAQ page of this site provides answers to your logitical questions as well as a link to schedule appointments.

Gracie Landes, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist will be happy to work with you to build solutions that fit you when you have:

the desire to improve any aspect of your life • trouble adjusting to a new situation or life transition • conflicts that keeps you from being closer to people you care about • anxiety, lack of information or embarrassment about sex • questions about relationships or sexual health...

and you want to work with someone who is dedicated to providing counseling that is brief, respectful and effective, and to discovering what works

When you make appointment, as part of the registration process, you will be asked to sign an online version of the informed consent document below. That signed copy will be kept in my confidential scheduling system TherapyAppointment as part of your record of our work together. I am providing this one for you to read before then.  Please read it or the TherapyAppointment version carefully and make a note of any questions or concerns you have. I am happy to answer any questions you have at any point in the process of our working together.

Here it is:

Informed Consent, Privacy Practices and Agreement for Services

Welcome to my practice. I provide this information when you begin psychotherapy to help you understand how I work and what I do to maintain your privacy. Please make a note of any questions you have. We can discuss these when we meet in person, and at any point in our work together. Once you sign this document, it represents agreement between us.

My background and how I work

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), with a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology, and am also an ASSECT (American Association of Educations Counselors and Therapists) Certified Sex Therapist (CST).

I work in a method known as Solution Focused Brief Therapy, a way of working that is respectful, optimistic, informed by feedback from clients, adult learning theory, and research into what works in therapy.

Solution Focused Brief Therapy uses conversations between the therapist and client describe a client’s hopes so as to actualize them. The process begins simply: I ask what your hopes are, what is already working well for you, how you will recognize success on your own terms, what you’ve already done that’s gotten you close you close in the past or present; what’s most close, relevant and important to you. Over the course of one or as many sessions are needed, you describe your desired outcome with such clarity that you can see it happening. In other words, this is therapy that works!

When working with more than one person in the room, I aim to be fair if not neutral, which means that while I might be frank in letting you know what I think in appropriate, respectful manner. I am bringing you my thoughts, opinions and training in a professional capacity, to be of assistance to each you. I make be sure each person has an equal opportunity to speak.

For those who want a structured approach for how to succeed in relationships, be they romantic, familial, with colleagues or friends, I use Pragmatic Experiential Therapy for Couples. This method provides a map of what to do, and uses the latest neuroscience research to help clients remain calm enough to have different responses to each other in the moment – a necessity for getting out of stuck cycles of behavior. Pragmatic Experiential Therapy is unique in that it combines information abut what work for people in similar situations with self regulation skills needed to actually use it. If you choose to work this way, I may ask to schedule individual sessions with you and your partner or family member, to get to know each of you one on one to coach you in the context of your relationship.

Problems can occur if members of a couple or family work with individual therapist who sides with them against their loved one(s). You want to choose an individual therapist carefully, with that in mind. Please do let me know if you are working with an individual therapist, and consider permitting me to collaborate with them. That way we can all work together to give you the absolute best chance of succeeding.

Making appointments

My available appointments can be seen on my calendar page in TherapyAppointment. You make or change appointments by logging on to TherapyAppointment.com and accessing my schedule there. There ‘s 24-hour window where you can’t cancel an appointment. If you absolutely must cancel, please text me as soon as you can. If you can’t text, please email me. It is very unlikely I will get your voicemail in time. To make a same day appointment, first look on my calendar, and if you see an opening you want to take, text me.

You are responsible to pay for any sessions that you miss or are not covered by your insurance. The fee for missing a session is $96. If you don’t show up or cancel on the day of an appointment, I can’t bill your insurance for the missed session, and it’s too late to offer it to anyone else. That cancellation deprives me of income I based my budget on, and other clients of an appointment. If fail to make an appointment 3 times, I will revoke your ability to make appointments until you’ve paid your full balance.

If your insurance doesn’t cover a session, you will be responsible for my full fee, which is published on the FAQ page of this website.

Contacting me

I am not generally available between sessions, though you are free to email me (using the secure email system in TherapyAppointment) with any information, questions or concerns you have..

To sum it up, order of preference for contacting me is: the TherapyAppointment email system, text for same day appointments or emergencies, then lastly by phone. I will make every attempt to return your communication within 24 hours during my work week. Weekends and holidays when I may not have easy phone or Internet access, I will take longer to get back to you.

In an emergency, please call your family physician, 911, 1- 800-LIFENET (1-800-543-3638) or, the nearest emergency room, where you can ask for the mental health professional on call.

Limits of Confidentiality (privacy)

I can release information to others about our work together only with your approval and your permission in writing. Using an insurance policy to see a therapist grants the therapist permission to bill using your name, and to provide a diagnosis. It grants the insurer the right to request your medical records and /or review treatment. Each time some one visits me, I take notes. This is what I record: time date and length of meeting, who attended, diagnosis, progress to date, goals for this session, next steps to be taken.

There are some situations in which I am legally obligated to take action to protect others from harm, even if I have to reveal some information about your treatment. They are:

- If I believe that a child, disabled, or elderly person is being harmed
- If a client is actively suicidal or homicidal
- If I believe that a client is threatening serious harm to the person or property of another.

Client-Therapist Privilege and Legal Proceedings

To maintain the integrity of your therapy, I will not communicate with an attorney or anyone else regarding your treatment in any legal or custody dispute you become involved in. Should you ask me to participate in a lawsuit, I will refuse because I sincerely believe it is against your best interest. I believe that mor eoften than not, bringing therapy into a legal matter will compromise your therapy and is very  likely to weaken your case.

Should you, or your attorney, or any attorney in a case you are involved in insist on trying to involve me in legal matters, I will refuse.  If for some reason I agree to provide a limited amount of information, I will not take on such work without the prior authorization in writing those who participated in therapy. I will charge my hourly (first session) rate for all the time spent, and will require a retainer before starting any such work.

Privilege in relationship and couples counseling

For relationship counseling to be successful, each person must be able to trust that information shared will not be brought up later in legal proceedings. Therefore, signing this agreement means you will not seek to have my records of our work discussed, nor ask me to disclose any information in any legal proceeding between you. If we do couple or family therapy (where there is more than one client) and you want to have records this therapy sent to anyone, all the adults present will need to sign a release, not just the person requesting it. 

Public situations

We really could run in to each other public. If this happens, I will not acknowledge you unless you acknowledge me first. This is out of respect for your right to confidentiality about being therapy and privacy in your life.

I do not accept social media invitations from clients. I do have business pages on FaceBook, LInkedIn and other sites.  To protect your privacy, I strongly  discourage you from posting anything that will  identify you as a client on any of those pages, to keep the fact that you are in therapy private.  

I often find myself working with people who know eachother, either by coincidence or because one of you referred the other to me. OUtsid eof threat, I ask that you not disclose the name or identity of any other client being seen by me to others.

Professional consultations

To provide the best possible service, I regularly consult with other professionals about my work. It is possible that in that context, your issues, but not identity, could be discussed with colleagues who, like me, are legally bound to keep this information confidential.

If you are working with another healthcare professional, I may ask for your written permission to speak with them, to coordinate treatment. If I do speak to them will let you know when I have spoken to them and, in general terms, what we discussed.

Recording sessions

From time to time, I may ask your permission to record our sessions. People have different feelings about being recorded, and you are under no obligation to participate. If you agree, with your written permission, I may use the  recordings I make in one, some or all of the following ways:

- to review our work on my own and / or to share parts of sessions with you
- to review some of our work with other mental health professionals with whom I consult to improve the quality of my work
- to present to colleagues at professional conferences or trainings. These colleagues are bound, as I am, to protect your confidentiality and not disclose any information about you to anyone.

Ending Therapy

Each of us has the right to decide not to continue with therapy. The best reason is that you have reached your goals. Other could include that your needs are outside of my scope of practice or competence (in which case I might refer you to another professional), that progress is not being made, or payments are not being made. If any client persistently misses payments or makes repeated same day cancellations, I will stop seeing them after giving the chance to clear their account with me. If you are ending therapy and would like, I can at your request, make recommendations or referrals, and discuss how to continue. I am also happy to resume therapy with you at a future date if we both judge that we’ve worked well together and you think I am the best helper for you at that time.

Information Practices

FEDERAL REGULATIONS REQUIRE THAT I MAINTAIN YOUR PRIVACY AND PROVIDE YOU WITH A COPY OF THIS NOTICE DESCRIBING HOW I DO SO. THE FOLLOWING DESCRIBES HOW MEDICAL INFORMATION ABOUT YOU MAY BE USED AND DISCLOSED AND HOW YOU CAN GAIN ACCESS TO THIS INFORMATION.

Understanding your PHI (Protected Health Information)

Each time you visit any medical professional; a record of your visit is made. Federal law requires these records to include the dates of sessions, who attended, length of session, payment information, a diagnosis for insurance billing purposes, goals of treatment, and progress notes appropriate to the modality of therapy used, in this case, Solution Focused Brief Therapy. Each session, I will ask for and record: progress you have made, goals for that session,  the out come you wish to achieve, resources and instances of success that will help you achieve that outcome,next step  to be taken, any resources offered. This record of treatment is your protected health care information or “PHI”.  It serves as a:

-  basis for planning your care and treatment

- means of communication among the health professionals who contribute to your care
- legal document describing the care you received
- means by which you or a third-party payer (insurance company) can verify that services billed were actually provided.

Understanding what is in your record and how your health information is used helps you better understand who, what, when, where, and why others may access your health information, and make more informed decisions when authorizing disclosure of it to others. I reserve the right to change my practices and to make the new provisions effective for all protected health information I maintain.

Treatment

I may use or disclose your PHI to coordinate or manage your treatment. For example: information obtained by me will be recorded in your chart. I will record the actions I take and observations about what worked more and less well for you. In that way, I will know how you are responding to treatment. Another example would be when I consult with another healthcare provider or therapist. I may also, with you permission, provide your physician or a subsequent healthcare provider with summaries of our work together to assist them in treating you.

If necessary or in an emergency, I may use or disclose information to notify or assist in notifying a family member, personal representative, or another person responsible for your care, of your location and general condition. If I am unable to reach your family member or personal representative, then I may leave a message for them at the phone number you provided as an emergency contact.

Payment

I will disclose some of your health care information if you request that I bill a third party. An example of payment is when I disclose your protected health information to your health insurer to obtain reimbursement or to determine eligibility or coverage.

Healthcare Operations

I may disclose some of your PHI during activities that relate to the performance and operation of my practice. Examples of health care operations are quality assessment activities, legal, audits and administrative services.

Your Health Information Rights

Although your health record is the physical property of this practitioner, the information in your health record belongs to you. You have the right to request that I not use or disclose your health information for a particular reason related to treatment, payment, or general health care operations. If so, I ask you to make such requests in writing.

Although I will consider your requests, please be aware that I am not obligated to accept them, as I must first comply first with federal laws. I will do my best to abide by your requests with regard to the disclosure of your clinical and personal records to anyone outside of my practice, except in an emergency, or if disclosure is required by law. Any such requests must be made in writing.

Summary

This written summary of my policies about confidentiality and information practices explains many common situations and exceptions to rules governing confidentiality. Please feel free to bring up any questions or concerns you may have, so you will be comfortable agreeing to the terms of our agreement. Some situations involving the limits of confidentiality may require your getting formal legal advice, because the laws governing confidentiality are complex.

Acknowledgement

What you will be agreeing to when you sign a copy of this document when we meet in person: 

- I understand that since Gracie Landes does not provide 24-hour crisis counseling, if I have an emergency necessitating immediate mental health attention, I will call 9-1-1 or go to an emergency room for assistance.

- I understand that while Gracie Landes is not  available to communicate or consult between sessions or on weekends, I can email her about our work together, preferably my through my account with her on TherapyAppointment.com, unless one of us is sending an attachment, in which case I will use the email address on her website.

- I agree to schedule using my online scheduling calendar, and to contact Gracie Landes about scheduling only for same day appointments or emergency cancellations, in which case I will text her.

- I understand that our paths may cross in social situations but that our therapeutic relationship comes first, along with protection of my confidentiality; therefore, Gracie Landes will not initiate the greetings.

- I understand that Gracie Landes will not become involved in any client’s legal matters or proceedings, and I agree not ask her to do so.

- If I am using heath insurance, I authorize the release of information to my health plan for the payment of claims and and less likely, record requests .

- I understand that I am responsible to be sure my mental health policy information is up to date, to be responsible for uncovered charges, and to notify the therapist of any changes to my coverage.

- I agree to pay a minimum of $90 and up to the Gracie Landes’s full published current hourly rate (available on the Make an in person appointment page of this website), for missed sessions, same day cancellations or sessions not covered by my insurance. I also agree to pay any bank fees resulting from a check being insufficiently funded.

- I understand that repeated same day cancellations or non-payment of fees could lead to my losing the ability to schedule appointments until those fees are paid.

OPTIONAL:

The following are about whether you would be willing, or not to allow  some of our sessions to be videotaped,. You are under no obligation  to say yes. For the following Please mark yes/no for each of  these possible uses:

__yes ___no    for Gracie Landes to review and monitor our progress

__yes ___no    for Gracie Landes to share with professional colleagues, for the purpose of getting professional advice and feedback to improve her work with me

__yes ___no     for Gracie Landes to show to colleagues or trainees at conferences, trainings, or other educational settings

 

© Gracie Landes 2023

Call me, Gracie  Landes at 929-484-0700 to discuss working together or click here to make a virtual appointment. You’re welcome to register first, in which case I will phone you to introduce myself prior to meeting so we can discuss your goals for therapy.

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